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So if you want to have a chance at meeting your most intriguing matches, you need to have the best possible profile, photos, and messages.”In my guise as a middle-aged American male, it’s my job to pursue women on our clients’ behalf.
These people are often in their early 20s; young women with less dating savvy are easy targets for the company’s methods.
At first, my trainer encouraged me to get creative with my replies, but by the third week, I was still getting back extensive rewrites.
My most frequent mistake was asking career-oriented questions, which were deemed too difficult for some women to answer.
But I was at the point where I was only able to return messages sporadically, which obviously didn’t go too well with the matches I was interested in.”“I found myself wishing there were two of me,” he continued.
“I thought, ‘Why couldn’t I just take what I had developed, and train someone else to sound like me, and outsource my online dating to him?
In November 2017, I ran across an ad seeking “people with good Tinder skills” for a job as a “Virtual Dating Assistant.” At first I thought it was a joke, but I completed their online form out of pure fascination. Apparently, professional writers make for good online-dating assistants; knowing how to seduce strangers with the written word is the company’s mandate, after all.
They are naturally drawn to the ‘leader of the pack.’” Valdez elaborates later in the manual: “The alpha male is the .” But how do you present yourself as an Alpha?
Profile Writers follow strict guidelines, often recycling the same half-dozen clichés over and over again. ), all the Profile Writer needs to do is search for the word “dog” in their manual and choose from a list of dog-related one-liners, like this one: The process for Closers is a bit more complicated.
The initial training period lasts several weeks before we’re given access to clients’ accounts, during which we must read several training manuals and submit draft responses to fake matches.
My personal favorite: These pick-up lines are mostly sent by a third type of employee, “Matchmakers,” who send out opening messages en masse across every dating platform imaginable: Tinder, Bumble, match.com, POF, Luxy, and Seeking Arrangement, to name just a few.
As part of the company’s all-inclusive service, Matchmakers will scour these platforms for potential matches and then send copy-and pasted opening messages to those who fulfill their clients’ preferences, such as “must love cats” or “should know how to cook.”But combing through each woman’s profile would require too much time, so Matchmakers are instead taught to generalize a client’s preferences as much as possible and then select an opening line that could work for hundreds of women. That’s easy: Client X’s Matchmaker can search the company manual for the word “travel” and select from a handful of vague travel-related greetings.
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My Closer manuals were written by the company’s founder, Scott Valdez, a self-taught dating expert with a background in sales.