Dating a fatherless women
It’s a well known fact that every single woman drops at least 10 pounds the minute she becomes recently separated. She gets upset and is unable to eat frequently, she’s stressed about the unknown, the attorney fees, and how her kids are doing. Most people would say they feel confident, sexy, that they love the feeling of their clothes practically falling off of them. ’ I looked in the mirror one day and I felt really, really old and tired. I didn’t feel like I was attractive on the inside or outside. I was a stay at home mom: I hadn’t had a job in 6 years.
She’s busy, or she might have just started working again. And lastly, the recently separated woman is dating again. Most would say they see themselves as being more attractive, right? But, let me take you into the mind of the recently separated 40 something woman. I had zero self esteem when it came to my professional ability, and figured the only skills I had now were diaper changing, bottle feeding and house cleaning.
The two of us would end up talking for the next two hours!
What was funny about the whole night was, it never occurred to me that he was interested in me.
This results in their doing things that, rather than make a man want to stay, ends up driving him away, thus fulfilling the self-fulfilled prophecy that no one wants them.
One of her husband’s co-workers came up and started talking to me.He was not attractive, and I felt like he approached me because he was curious to talk to “the divorced girl.” A few minutes later, another man approached me.My heart stopped when I saw him because he was seriously drop dead gorgeous. He introduced himself with a huge grin that almost gave me a heart attack.Although much has been written about the effect of fatherlessness on African American sons, far less has been written on its effect on daughters.Of recent, however, there are more studies and works written on the effect of fatherlessness on African American daughters.