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I personally am single by choice — as in being single because I want to be single and want to spend more time with myself or that I don’t want to commit. There are really a lot of advantages to it, I have to admit.
I am single because despite all my efforts I haven’t yet found the person who I would want to be in a relationship with. It feels like I am losing a battle against myself, against time. I know that it’s part of life, but I am the kind of person who just likes to win. I am free to do whatever I want, I have the whole bed for myself, I don’t need to schedule my days around anyone else’s schedule — I could write a whole listicle about it, just to prove how much I know that it has advantages.
He is 10 years my senior, has no children, no prior marriages, is estranged from family, and is very much a loner.
In contrast, my lifestyle involves a lot of family and friends.
What about last week when work was nuts and I just needed someone to sit and have a pint with; you remember, don’t you? The truth is, I’ll always be here for you, I will always love you — but it still hurts when a new bed-mate turns you into a missing person.
It might be that we are still recovering from heartbreak or trauma. Rationally thinking I know how to reframe it, I know what the right aspect would be.
But my friends were here first, they’ve had my heart for years and in some cases decades they’re my heart and soul and I’m lucky that Boyfriend has never had a problem with that.
Sometimes the best thing about Boyfriend is his ability to be logical, something I sorely lack; he never gets emotional when I bail on him to spend a night in with my roomie or a night out for wings with the boys and he never intrudes on the most holy of days, Sunday brunch – unless he’s been invited.
That’s fine for me as I am divorced and not looking to remarry. I always believed the heart and soul of a relationship was rooted in two people's strength, loyalty, and commitment to each other.But as a unit of three (myself and two kids), am I wrong or premature in wanting a more all-inclusive experience from my older, loner companion?– Alone with a Loner You're not wrong to want more. In your case, it's not about longing for a date to family occasions, it's about building a shared life. You didn't tell us whether you've confronted him much about the issue. The compromise could be trying smaller gatherings – maybe a dinner with two friends or a few family members.So when we got together I decided I wouldn’t be the girl who gets a boyfriend and promptly disappears from existence.It isn’t easy to be a good friend, a good girlfriend, a good pet parent and keep it together at work but it’s doable, even if it’s a little stressful at times.
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He is not antisocial from a personality standpoint – he has an engaging and bright personality – but he participates very sparingly in family events.