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After our first date (which was AMAZING, btw...) he was dropping me off and walking me to the door. I HONESTLY felt bad, because he looked like I had violated him. Instead he said I was a bad kisser, when really he was biting my tongue, knocking my teeth and dominating the whole experience into a slobbering drowning experience.
He was terribly selfish, unwilling to learn or listen, and also mostly unwilling to attempt to please me.
He made me feel ashamed of my normal libido when he admitted freely his was low, and it was just terrible.
I ended up telling him things weren't going to work out and he promptly blocked me on every social media site we had contact on. I had to be patient and understanding, but I didn't mind showing him what I liked and what I needed, and I learned from too.
The fact that he was inexperienced in relationships (I was his first serious girlfriend) was more difficult for me than the fact that he was kinda inexperienced sexually.