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IT is the details that bring home the reality of domestic violence.
For instance, asked how many beds will be available at a shelter for battered women that opened in Mamaroneck last week, Charlotte Watson, director, said simply, '' Fourteen beds -- 18, if you count the cribs.'' Not only does the image of the tiniest shelter resident put a human face on the problem but another feature of the new home is also significant: the shelter is the first in the county to be accessible to the disabled, a fact with special relevance to those who might stay there.'' There hasn't been a shelter for a woman who was physically impaired to the point where she had to rely on crutches or a wheelchair, and many women are being abused to the point that they are disabled,'' Ms. While New Yorkers may take comfort in knowing that violent crime has decreased steadily in the state since 1991, those who work with victims of domestic violence know there is little reason to celebrate. In 70 percent of the murder cases reviewed by the commission, which was headed by District Attorney Jeanine Pirro, the offender had a history of physical abuse of the victim.
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Both programs are available for women outside as well as inside the shelters.
Northern Westchester's program, which began last month, will provide trained legal advocates and lawyers for women seeking orders of protection and will help them with both legal and emotional support as they go through either Family Court or Criminal Court.'' We want to strengthen the woman's resolve to continue her efforts to hold her abuser accountable because it becomes a very intimidating, frightening and potentially dangerous thing to pursue justice,'' Ms. '' They hear everything from, ' You'll never see your children again,' all the way to, ' I'll kill you if you say a word about me,' or, ' You'll be sorry,' and you are left to yourself to figure out what he means.'' The legal services program at My Sister's Place, which began several months ago, works closely with the Putnam/Westchester Legal Services Administration.
Finally, advocates want legally to expand the definition of family, which now covers only people related by blood and marriage, former spouses and unmarried people with a child in common.
Those who work with victims of domestic violence say arrests would be easier to make if families were defined to include couples who live together, same-sex couples and dating couples.