Dating traditional men
However, understanding the mental frame of mind and cultural background will help you mitigate culture shock when dating.The best way to find a way to the heart of an Indian man is through food, movies and cricket.
Some people will run away to avoid getting into a discussion; Some will just stand and watch, the rest will have opinions ranging from “What brutes they are! ” and everything in between; Some of us will go on a tangent with comments like “Why date? ” and “Against our ancient culture”, and of course, the inevitable “From Sita to Draupadi, the woman is the source of all problems, even with dating.” There will also be quite a few declaring that the problem is not the Indian Men, it is the Indian Woman, leading the poor lamb on and abandoning him at the altar of parental approval. This is doubly true for Indian men, they have not quite evolved from the pack foraging stage of Gorillas.
They just assume all western women drink, smoke and a lead a carefree life!
Some of them see an opportunity to have sex with White women away from the prying eyes of family and friends.
I guess it is good to remember the advice the sage gave to the king, “This too shall pass!
” If you can see past this nutty stage, you will go on to something more conventional, perhaps even beautiful.